Queer Pdvd -
Here’s a draft for a blog post written for — a space for queer folks navigating post-divorce or post-dissolution life. The tone is affirming, reflective, and community-centered. Title: Unmaking a Life Together, Remaking One Alone: Notes from Queer PDVD
But here we are. You, me, the nonbinary ex who still sends memes, the shared cat who doesn’t know why there’s only one set of footsteps now. This is queer post-divorce. Let’s call it —because we deserve our own acronym, our own language, our own kind of survival. The breakup we didn’t see modeled Straight divorce has a vocabulary: alimony, custody, “conscious uncoupling” (borrowed, as always, from the straights and then polished). Queer divorce has… a shared Notes app from 2019, a couple of houseplants no one wants to claim, and the quiet terror of wondering: Was our love less real because it ended? queer pdvd
The paperwork is a nightmare. The healing is non-linear. But the company? Finally, the right kind. Here’s a draft for a blog post written
There’s no script for queer divorce. We never had a template for the wedding—why would we have one for the wreckage after? You, me, the nonbinary ex who still sends
