Eroticon 2002 [upd] -
Then there was the panel, led by a burlesque dancer who had to shout over the thumping bass from the DJ in the next room. It was unpolished, messy, and utterly authentic. The "Internet Lounge" Perhaps the most bizarre artifact of 2002 was the "Internet Lounge." A bank of 15 desktop computers running Windows 98 sat in the hallway. For $2 for 10 minutes, attendees could log into AOL Instant Messenger (AIM) to check if their online lover was actually going to show up to the meet-and-greet.
Here is what it was like to step behind the velvet rope twenty-two years ago. Forget the streamlined, hyper-professional look of today’s sex-positive expos. ErotiCon 2002 was all about crushed velvet, vinyl, frosted tips, and frosted lipstick. The fashion was a chaotic mash-up of The Matrix , Blade , and a late-night Cinemax movie.
We lost some of the grit. But we also lost some of the heart.
Before the internet made every niche instantly accessible, ErotiCon was a pilgrimage. It was where the goths, the gamers, the burlesque dancers, and the curious couples went to find their tribe. It was a place where you could be weird, horny, and socially awkward out loud without an algorithm judging you.
In 2024, we watch influencers unbox sex toys in perfectly lit studios. In 2002, we watched a guy in a chainmail vest try to explain the difference between a flogger and a cat-o-nine-tails while a speaker blew a fuse.
But that is exactly why it matters.
For the uninitiated, ErotiCon was a traveling adult convention that peaked in the late 90s and early 2000s. While the Las Vegas event later became the flagship, the iteration—held in a sprawling, slightly rundown hotel convention center in the Midwest—remains a fascinating time capsule.
The chat rooms of 2002 were a core part of the ErotiCon identity. Screen names like "DarkKnight_69" and "Velvet_Tears" were written on sticky name tags. Meeting someone "IRL" (In Real Life) was still a novelty. Looking back, ErotiCon 2002 was not "cool." It was awkward, sweaty, and often poorly organized. The fire marshal almost shut down the "Midnight Masquerade" because the fog machine set off the sprinklers.
